Can you feel that you are loved?

From time to time, we encounter people who do not approve of, dislike, or even find the work we do or the current situation bad and ridiculous. At such times, instead of questioning the work we do or the current situation, questioning the importance of the person in front of us and their perspective on life is a much better option.

Everyone looking at the same sky does not mean they see the same things. The window through which everyone looks at life and what they see and feel are completely different. You live anchored to the values you hold. Therefore, after the other person's comment, questioning them and their stance instead of questioning yourself means ignoring your own values.

If you start questioning yourself when you see an unloving approach or behavior from even one person, it is helpful to remember this at such times:

 You cannot be loved by everyone, and you don't have to be loved by everyone 🧘🏽‍♀️

There will definitely be people who do not support your decisions or dislike your thoughts. That does not mean you are on the wrong path. Instead of leaving the truths you sincerely believe in between the two lips of the other person, you may need to change your anxious mind.

Love is a very powerful and sensitive feeling as much as it is an inner emotion. If one out of a hundred comments is negative, your focus on that negativity shows us the sensitivity of this feeling. Instead of searching for love in every moment or in everyone, you can choose to see more the presence of people in your life who truly love you and with whom you can fully feel the unconditional love between you.

If you want to meet more content on this topic, you can check out the episode with Lara Tuksal of birdietalks, which you can access on Spotify and Apple Podcast.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6jdhVj7x9N1zJvPVNQ3WVW?si=c7758da9289d4e05 

At the same time, it might be a good idea to include yoga and meditation practices in your life to understand what you need to change and where you need to stand firm and root yourself. 

 Wishing you a life where you can deeply and fully feel love !

As Team Birdiejay, we are always by your side to support you and your journey. 

With my love,

Çiğdem