Can you see the good side of the things you can't change?

"For our own development, it is very important to complete the things we are lacking or to replace the things we think are not going well with the correct ones, while it is equally important to recognize the things we cannot change. Because if we do not recognize the things we cannot change, we start to struggle with them, we put in effort, but this also means rowing in vain."

The next step after realizing and accepting the things you cannot change is to see the good sides in them. Just like everything else, they must have good aspects as well, so as you dare to look at the glass half full and see their good sides, the exhausting struggle with them will come to an end.

You can start by noticing the things you won't change; look at the situations that occupy your mind the most, that are present in your life but you find it hard to accept deep down.

"Can you really change it, is it in your hands to change this?" Or do you need to accept it?

 "If changing is not in your hands, thinking about the question 'So what is its lesson for me?' can help you move into the acceptance process and find your good sides 🧘🏽‍♀️"

You have witnessed many times how much the scent of our environment affects how we feel. We can turn this effect into a tool to help our journey of lightening. You can include palo santo, sage incense, and aromatic essential oils in your routine to help you feel lighter.

"Wishing you a life where you can see the good side of the things you cannot change!"

"We are always by your side as Team Birdiejay to support you and your journey." 

With love,

Çiğdem